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Opinion:  Editorial

Responsibility deferred
Tuesday, November 20, 2007 11:56 AM EST Print this story | Email this story
We are feeling extremely shocked and just a little naive after reading a story about three boys in Atlanta -- an 8 year old and two 9 years olds -- who have been accused of raping an 11 year old girl.

Had we been asked, we would have said boys of that age aren't physically capable of rape and aren't knowledgeable enough to even know what it is.

But police who are investigating the case disagree and say the boys took the girl into the woods where she was sexually assaulted and raped.

The case is certainly troubling, but more than that it leaves us wondering what has happened that children of this age could become so sexually aware. What have we as a society done to our children to rob them of their childhood innocence well before childhood passes? Whatever it is, can we undo it or is to too late?

If the charges prove to be true, we have to ask why would kids so young -- third and fourth grade age -- be more interested in sex than in baseball or bicycles? Has the liberalization of what is acceptable translated into a loss of values at such a tender age?

As adults, we have the unique responsibility of providing our children with a moral compass to guide them through life. If this is an example of how we are doing, we are failing miserably.




Reader Comments

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unknown wrote on Aug 20, 2008 10:03 AM:

" i think this is absurd... how would 3 young children know how to do that... i mean that their parents need to step it up and be parents that care... what the government needs to do is kick it up a notch and DO WHATS RIGHT! "

angrymom wrote on Jun 26, 2008 3:19 PM:

" ifeel really sad for the young girl but as parents we are no longer in control of are kids.the goverment is social services say you cant disipline them they teach our kids that if we argue,make them do chores,or even holler at them or god forbide spank them it;s abuse;so i ask you what are we suppose to do? "

Question wrote on May 14, 2008 11:12 AM:

" Ignorance is bliss. I use to think alot of it was the parents fault and then the rest sosiety! Now that I have seen more kids come from good homes and still turn out troubled, I know that it is the world we live in as a whole! The media, the kids that do have bad parents and pressure these kids have today from our sosiety! THAT IS WHAT'S WRONG! "

just sick to my stomach wrote on Apr 26, 2008 8:00 PM:

" I am a mother of three young girls. my oldest about to be nine. She goes to public school. This school, Thank God, is allowed (with parents permission) to spank the unruley child. I see so many articles about children killing or raping. This should not be happening. Parents need to step up and be parents again. Stop letting you're child run wild. Teach them a hard days work. It not only teaches them responsibility but it gives them pride. The problem isn't society. We don't have to let our children watch bad t.v or play video games all the time. Parents have just found a way to put there kids off on being raised by electronics because they themselfs have gotten lazy. I am raising my kids to respect their elders. I am raising them to respect themselves. I spank my kids when they do wrong. You will not see them on the front page of a news paper because they broke the law. Read your Bible. God said punish your children if you love them! "

Brenda wrote on Apr 2, 2008 1:29 PM:

" Take away the drugs,violence and sex on TV, put the mother back in the home to care for her children and God back in our schools and our lives, then the world will be a better place to be. "

Lady School Bus Driver wrote on Mar 9, 2008 9:23 AM:

" I agree with so many of the comments.

Rape is not about sex , but about control and violence . Does this go for young children too? Does this mean when they ( the 2 boys ) grow up , they will be sexual predators ? Does anyone know ?

Children , due to hormones in meat and milk , are developing at an alarming rate . Twelve year old girls with three or four inch cleavage showing .... it happens all the time . Young boys able to have sex , was not possible a few years ago.

Parents need to take a close look at how their children ( boys and girls ) are dressed . Six year olds are not adults , or sex symbols .... let's dress them accordingly . Let these children be children .

TV shows and video games portray an unrealistic view of life . Sex , rape and murder are not a part of childhood……or certainly shouldn’t be .

Parents …deal with your children now .... or later . When they are young will be much easier . When they are older , society will do it for you , and not in a loving way .

The bottom line ... if you have the children , you are responsible for raising them . Not the school system or the goverment .

"

Teacher wrote on Mar 5, 2008 10:43 PM:

" As a teacher, I see the damage that bad parenting does on the young people of our world every day...I deal with disrespect, laziness, and a completely non-existant work ethic. Many of today's children are going to be a burden upon society because they have no drive to succeed and would rather turn to a life of crime than do an honest day's work. I think that we should start holding parents accountable for what their child does...afterall it should be a reflection of how they are being raised...

I'm tired of having to take responsibility for useless parents that are too afraid of their kid to discipline them and ensure that they are behaving, in or out of school... "

granlou wrote on Feb 22, 2008 8:13 AM:

" What a shame,. that little girl is scarred for life. I have a 10 yr. old granddaughter. I pray everyday the Lord watches over her. Most parents have no morals today so how can they teach their kids. Kids see their single parents having sex with different partners every day and night. Nothing is sacred anymore. For an 8 yr. old and 2 9 yr. olds to do this is absolutely insane. Everyone is always blaming the schools and teachers. It is not their place to raise your child. They are there to teach them reading, writing and arithmetic.Stop blaming them for things parents are suppose to teach them.Teachers should have the right to discipline the child when they are at school, if parents want them to raise them,some one needs to step in and teach them values and respect, parents can't do it they do not know it themselves. "

ur child just spanking Gregory Tumey, Jr. wrote on Jan 22, 2008 8:28 AM:

" I am sorry but in response to the comment before mine I have to ask why you feel you can't discipline your child just because spanking is no longer favorable. Why do our children have to be hit and put in fear to be disciplined? There are other ways to discipline a child then hitting and they are more effective then hitting. I would advize people to take a parenting class and learn whats out there before speaking about things you don't know. In response to the article it is Horrendous what happened but it is a probably an issue of ignorant people procreating and not being parents then beating their kids. "

a mother wrote on Dec 18, 2007 9:28 PM:

" I'll tell you exactly what is wrong: Parents are no longer allowed to punish their kids for wrong doings. Parents now have to work more to provide for their family due to the rising costs of living. A lot of parents aren't home to look after their children and some just don't care what their kids are doing. When parents were allowed to spank their kids and punish them for doing wrong, there was a lot less crime among children and teenagers. Minors also get off too easy with their punishments. Sorry, but I find it hard to believe that when a child does something wrong that they didn't know what they were doing. My 3 year old knows when he does wrong. Peer pressure plays a big role too. They get the attention from their peers when they act up "immaturely" and they thrive for that attention. I have experienced that through subbing in our school systems. Kids aren't taught morals anymore either. Heaven forbid the word God be mentioned anymore!!! I rememeber saying the Pledge of Allegience all through my school years. ANd I also remember the Ten Commandments being posted in schools as well. People have to run their mouths about that as well. I say SPANK you children, TEACH them right from wrong, and LOVE them. "

tosocietyhaters wrote on Dec 8, 2007 7:16 PM:

" then dont let your child watch violent and sex filled tv! dont let them play the video games with it! stop trying to punish everyone because YOU CANT DO YOUR JOB AS A PARENT! "

ellen wrote on Dec 6, 2007 2:14 PM:

" Too much sex on tv, and the internet plus, not to mention that some parents are to worried about where they are going to get their next high at instead of making sure their children are being taught properly.If the law and government doesn't get the drug problem taken care of it's only going to get worse. We haven't seen the half of it yet! "

J.D wrote on Dec 5, 2007 12:38 PM:

" You need to blame society some what because now anything involving sex is okay.Everything is not okay!Kids are exposed to abnormal behavior and are told it's okay.I have nothing against gay people but I don't want to hear about their sex lives.I really don't want to hear about anybodies sex life, but you're over exposed every where you go.Kids are exposed to way too much of every thing. "

stopblaming wrote on Dec 4, 2007 11:22 AM:

" stop blaming society and start holding parents responsible again! thats whats wrong with the country! not those so called 'liberals'. "

A Liberal wrote on Nov 22, 2007 12:12 AM:

" I'm really getting tired of editorials, both in newspapers and radio, using the word "liberal" as a scapegoat for real problems facing the country. This case could just as easily be explained by conservative sexual repression limiting what's really needed: sex education. Yes, basic sex ed as early as the 4th grade. It's a natural part of life and without education, confused kids do all manner of bad things. Despite what hate radio may tell you, liberalism is about political freedoms, not about corrupting 8 year olds. "

Donna wrote on Nov 21, 2007 1:34 PM:

" Other countries are A LOT more liberal and open about sex, than the United States of America is, and these countries don't have nearly the problems we do and certainly no 8 year old boys raping an 11 year old girl. Their abortion-rates, crime-rates, divorcee-rates and teen-pregnancy rates are a lot lower than ours and most of these countries start with sex-ed already in early elementary school. You find nudity in commercials, on wall boards, statues and uncovered magazines all over the place - sex and nudity is nothing to be ashamed off or hidden... Obviously the liberalization of things isn't the problem or how do you explain that the most conservative westernized country (us) has the most sex-crimes, teen-pregnancies and so on ? Talking about values & morals, running a picket sign to protest gay rights or write an article about how terrible liberalization is, doesn't do the trick, but good parenting, a good education and a healthy attitude about your body does ! "


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